And Love Is..?

If I'm not mistaken, this is my first time publishing a post about 'LOVE'.

I think, most of girls love this 'LOVE' topic.
I've read so many entries discussing the topic from so many blogs, and most of them were written by girls. Love of partnerships, love of families, love of animals, love of doing this and that; all sorts of love.

And boys, some of us tend to avoid talking about 'LOVE'. I have to admit that I am, still, one of them. Not saying that I don't deal with love, no, I'm still human, but I don't really enjoy talking about 'it' most of the time. I mean, talking about it with other people. You can talk about fantasy, life, psychology, philosophy, entertainment and sports, I'll join you. But love? Hardly. I don't even speak about it with my family.

So why now?

Well, we celebrated Mother's Day last week, and are currently celebrating Teacher's Day. Not to forget, wherever I go, I see people hanging out with their loved ones happily. I've been seeing 'love' a lot lately. And I can say that I kind of 'lost' it, too.

Talking about love, do we have a specific meaning, an absolute definition of love? I have heard so many words describing 'LOVE'. So I can say that everyone sees love as one same thing, but describes them differently.

Then what about me? What is my definition of love? How do I see it? How do I describe it?

"When you start thinking about someone else more than you do for yourself."


nkecik May 17, 2009 at 1:32 AM  

love hurts.

Nadjighah May 17, 2009 at 3:37 AM  

I agree with your definition. ;] (tho i have some of my own.) :D

Igniz May 17, 2009 at 9:34 AM  

nkecik: it can be.huhu.
nadjighah: thanks:) well i believe everybody has his/her own definition of love:)

anis May 17, 2009 at 12:22 PM  

soo true :)

Igniz May 17, 2009 at 12:34 PM  

anis: heh heh:P

peningkepale May 17, 2009 at 1:23 PM  

fuyo definition dia!

ya benar benar

Igniz May 17, 2009 at 2:06 PM  

peningkepale: ape yg fuyo nye?XD

En. Hizzly May 17, 2009 at 5:34 PM  

yes. maybe poetry jiwang aku memberi keberanian utk ko menulis tentang jiwang2 ni. syabas bro

Igniz May 17, 2009 at 5:43 PM  

hizzly: dude, this is not a 'jiwang' entry..i'm talking about 'love' in general. my personal definition of it. but if you think it's jiwang, then i have to respect that. i cannot say you're wrong. coz everybody sees things differently. everybody has his/her own opinions. mekacih, bro. man utd juara EPL, apa lagi? blanja aku SUBWAY..XD

Nene Matahari May 17, 2009 at 7:21 PM  
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Igniz May 17, 2009 at 7:43 PM  

nene: thank you, cik nene:)yay!dpt kwn baru!(jadi bebudak kecik jap)XD

wunny May 17, 2009 at 10:03 PM  

you rite deyh.
everybody got their own opinion.
i like to hear love story from others.

Igniz May 17, 2009 at 10:31 PM  

wunny: hehe:P

Natasya May 18, 2009 at 1:04 PM  

love is a beautiful & pure. But it's just us, humans who made it sounds terrible and hurtful. one day, when u finally feel the true thing, u will be able to see things clearer. never give up on love.


Igniz May 18, 2009 at 1:55 PM  

natasya: heh heh..i will never give up on love:P

aiMo0o May 18, 2009 at 4:36 PM  

maybe girls are more open to discuss about love as compared to men... my GF and i talk about love all the time!hik3
btw, i really like that quote.. x)

Igniz May 18, 2009 at 6:20 PM  

aimooo: that quote is my definition of love..what's yours?:)

Nadia May 19, 2009 at 12:50 AM  

agree! :)

Anonymous May 19, 2009 at 1:32 AM  

As for me..'love' is the only verb that u'll have no reason of doin it. u might have ur own type of girl/guy to be ur couple; pretty, intelligent, tall etc.. but in the end, u jus fall for this clumsy,irresponsible,short guy/girl. why? no reason.

n ijan, u said u kinda 'lost' it.well unlike 'love', u lost sumthn/sum1 bcus there r reasons behind it..

so go n search 4 the reasons bro....if not, u wont hav it forever...

Gambatte ne~


Igniz May 19, 2009 at 9:43 AM  

nadia: sy da agak cik nadya akan stuju:)

anonymous ayu: what if there are no reasons behind it? what if that is my destiny, that to lose it? what the title for the drama that me and visha train kat form 2 students for the competition..ahahaXD

faz May 20, 2009 at 12:51 PM  

well, i LOVE ur definition..


Igniz May 20, 2009 at 7:27 PM  

faz: maceh:)

lyndadyana May 20, 2009 at 9:25 PM  

love is... nothing..

Igniz May 20, 2009 at 10:24 PM  

lyndadyana: can depends..

Anonymous May 28, 2009 at 8:11 PM  

love has a different definition for simple words; one man's meat is another man's poison. people are not the same. but remember, thee is no life without LOVE, it may hurt u, it may feedu, it may rejuvenate uor it may also kill u, but every human sees love in his life..

on ur comment with anonymous ayu;
there is always a reason behind something. sit down and think about it. you have to give up something to gain something, and your role is to choose which is more important. do not blame destiny or fate, coz i believe intelligence can change even fate... good luck

man u rulezzzz....

Igniz May 28, 2009 at 8:19 PM  

anonymous: heeheehee...i think i might just know who this is..thanks!:)

Anonymous May 29, 2009 at 3:13 AM  

Love: a way to look. Not jut on other people, but on life. Love is the feeling of giving and expecting nothing in return. Love is life, if one choose to love life.

PS: hope you don't mind me visiting you blog

Igniz May 29, 2009 at 8:42 AM  

winsor: you can visit my blog anytime you want. it's open for everybody. and i'll be happier that way:)

Shasha Moza August 16, 2009 at 11:57 AM  

Love just "is" whatever it may be... u can feel it but will finally lost in finding the description =)

Igniz August 16, 2009 at 6:41 PM  

shasha: it makes sense:)

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