Love Love Hate Hate

Purity of mind is a state that influences humans to act or react in the lives of a society. And yes, it also affects the way one deals with personal emotions. When the mind is crystal clear and fresh, everything goes well and what is not can be made right. But when the mind darkens, not a single thing can define glory and happiness.

Love is one factor that alters this state. When we love doing a thing, then every moment spent on it is never a waste. When we love someone, then all the lights around us turn brighter and put a smile on our face. When we are loved, then there is not a word that scares and makes us feel unsafe.

However, hate is another factor that changes our purity of mind. When we hate a job, then every second feels slower than normal. When we hate a person, then the darkest heart seems to grow. When we are hated, then there will not even be an ounce of joy hiding behind our soul.

But no matter how much we love to love and to be loved, no matter how much we hate to hate and to be hated, we can't choose to only have one of them. We need both. Because despite everything that contradicts our wish, we must first feel them in order to understand them, and finally learn from them.

Love and hate can never be separated. Love and hate can never be terminated. We have got to know the right way to make them work with us. We have got to do the right thing.

Love is the feeling we should love, and hate is the feeling we should hate. And that is why, ladies and gentlemen, we need both of them.


Healmie a.k.a BuRN December 11, 2009 at 12:45 PM  

HeaLMie a.k.a BuRN said: "Love is not to be found anywhere, because it comes to the right person at the right moment. The same goes to hate. You may choose either love or hate to live with, but you just cannot simply leave the other one behind."

Aida Hazlan December 11, 2009 at 3:14 PM  

"hate is the feeling we should hate" hurm.. it's like one step forward two steps back :) hate is indeed an intense feeling/emotion :)

Judiene December 11, 2009 at 3:46 PM  

i couldn't agree more with you bro
we need both and if there's only love in this world, oh, what a boring and dull life
so do hate
love and hate are like spices that gives flavor to our life

great entry btw..

Igniz December 11, 2009 at 4:38 PM  

burn: yup. that's my point, mate!

aida: very intense and must be dealt with carefully... :P

judiene: thanks. :)

SOFIA December 11, 2009 at 6:35 PM  


what if i love to hate
and i hate to love?

hahaha. crap~

Igniz December 11, 2009 at 6:45 PM  

sofia: if u love to hate n hate to love, that's not crap. that's ur choice. but can u survive being that? heeheehee... :D

hannamaruku December 11, 2009 at 7:59 PM  

i likeee :))

anak pak man December 11, 2009 at 10:34 PM  

hate is needed to understand love and vice versa..
good one man..

Igniz December 11, 2009 at 10:39 PM  

hanna: glad to hear that. :)

anak pak man: exactly, dude. thanks. :)

Anonymous December 11, 2009 at 10:59 PM  

i totally agree with you... you need to have both to grow stronger.

phyto hystrix December 11, 2009 at 11:53 PM  


May I share a quote? It's "do what you love,love what you do".

Common among job hunters..full dedication=best performance! :)

Taking it generally,lack of balance between the two elements sure makes us less human. And I think it's such a huge responsibility for us too,to keep it upright. Look what's happening nowadays-war everywhere-must've resulted from the issue you mentioned earlier,failure to see the need of balancing between both hate and love.

But still,we live to learn,and big changes start from numerous little efforts,right? ;)

Igniz December 12, 2009 at 7:10 AM  

simplicity101: yup, thank you. :)

phyto hystrix: yes, indeed. thanks for the quotation. :)

Healmie a.k.a BuRN December 12, 2009 at 12:09 PM  

Quotation = sebut harga? hehe

Igniz December 12, 2009 at 3:18 PM  

burn:ko ni otak pikir business je kan? quotation in writing context ler...hehe.

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